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Once November rolls around, toy companies begin a marketing blitz. All of the manufacturers want to ensure your children have the newest toy on their wish list. Whether it’s Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or even winter birthdays, the temptation to keep up with the mythical Joneses can be intense. But whether you are looking to keep a minimal household or just avoid the latest craze quickly becoming the latest clutter in your house, non-toy gifts might be the solution to this madness. Here are a few non-toy ideas for the kids in your life, no matter their age.

For babies: Book subscriptions are a great gift for the babies in your life. Children whose parents read to them are more likely to achieve higher education, have better relationships, and have better financial security. Pediatricians recommend starting as early as possible because even infants benefit from being read to. For parents who don’t want to read the same story again and again, there are several book subscription options available. Some popular services include the Amazon Prime Book Box and Lilypost, the latter of which donates a book to a child in need for every box sent.

For toddlers and school-age children: Learning experiences are such a valuable gift to younger children. This could include zoos, aquariums, children’s museums, or music classes near them. Depending on your budget, this could be a onetime, seasonal or annual pass for the whole family.

Some memberships come with a tangible gift, like a stuffed animal for each new member at the zoo, so your child doesn’t miss out on unwrapping something on the big day. If you’re taking the child yourself, don’t forget to take pictures - those shots with the giraffe or shark behind you are great reminders of your fun gift.

For tweens and teens: What better way to give a gift and spur bonding with a tween or teenager than a shared experience? If you want to spark some meaningful conversations, you could take a class together on one of your child’s interests. This not only shows that you care about their likes, but you get to learn something new in the process! If you want to win gift-giver of the year award, you can snag tickets to their favorite artist in concert or sports team when they come to town. You may not be able to talk during the show or game but you’ll create lasting memories that you can talk about for years to come.

For the over the top gifter: Travel is the ultimate experience gift. Vacations are great for family bonding, as they take you away from the ordinary and allow for some quality time outside of your normal routines. Trips are even good for childhood brain development. Of course, if the child you’re gifting to is not your own, check with their parents first, but even a day trip to someplace new can be a great experience for everyone involved.

Set boundaries.

Family dynamics can be complex. Acknowledge them and accept that you can only control your role.

Practice relaxation, exercise daily and eat well.

Set aside time for yourself and prioritize self-care.

Get enough sleep.

Avoid alcohol and drugs.

Spend time in nature.

Volunteer.

The act of volunteering can provide a great source of comfort.

Find support.

Whether it’s with friends, family, a counselor or a support group, airing out and talking can help.

Keep up or seek therapy.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, it may be time to share with your mental health professional.

* namica.org

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